is it too late to write about christmas?
it’s that whole forgetful, fumbling, mumbling, procrastinating, slow moving disaster that dear hubby becomes around the holidays. i will admit that i knew i was marrying a mumbler and procrastinator, but the christmas obligations really exaggerate these qualities in him and combined with the stress i feel, it creates the rage.
one of our biggest problems is that i think christmas is a season and not a day or two in december, as he does. during one of my rages this year dear hubby admitted to thinking x-mas started on the 24th and for me it started a few weeks before. this is a huge difference in how we view and experience christmas, and hopefully we will take the lessons we learned in 2011 and apply them in 2012.
christmas is magical and i love all the music, traditions, smells and tastes that come along during this special time of year. but on the flip side, it is a lot of work too. there is a lot pressure on me to remember all of the finer details about the holidays, who to shop for, make for, what to get, what to make, when to do it, making cards, deciding on the concept, etc etc.
it’s january 8th and i am planning next x-mas already. think what you may, but i don’t want to find myself in the same rage this year. i have suggested to dear hubby to get his shopping done by september, seriously, because then he can focus on the fun stuff around the holidays. and as the kids get bigger there will be more fun,winter,holiday activities to participate in, but if hubs is out doing last minute shopping or wrapping or whatever, then his time will be limited with the family. plus, with bear starting school in the fall, he too will only have limited time during christmas to romp and play.
and, finally i want to clear up that christmas rage wasn’t an ongoing fight at our house. we did have lots of fun, beautiful moments and created lots of warm memories as a family, dear hubby included.
i’d love to hear about your christmas rage experiences and ways you’re hoping to combat the problem this year.